The Gym: Stage 4
Feeling Good About Being FitYou're making excellent progress toward a lifetime of regular exercise. Applaud your commitment — the longer you continue to be physically active, the more confident you'll be and the less likely to slip back.
When you complete the activities in this stage, continue on to the next. Or return to The New You any time to work on this or another health area.
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Navigating Road BlocksThere are plenty of speed bumps on the road to better fitness. If you think ahead and plan for dealing with obstacles, they'll be a lot easier to navigate. Let's look at some of the common obstacles exercisers encounter.
The weather won't cooperateSolution: participate in activities that aren't dependent on the weather — join a health club, exercise class, or sports league that plays indoors. Or buy some home equipment to use on those days when you can't get out of the house.
I don't have timeSolution: make your workout a priority. Schedule exercise sessions as you would a meeting. Be sure to allow time to get ready, warm up, and cool down. Have your gym bag packed and ready to go.
I want to spend more time with my familySolution: be sure your family knows how important your workout is to you. Whenever you can, include your family in your exercise routine so everyone can benefit. Remember to go for walks together.
My job requires that I travel a lotSolution: choose hotels with a fitness center or pack your walking shoes and ask the concierge to suggest a safe route. Bring along a resistance band to use in your room — along with stretching exercises.
My Solutions for SuccessWhat gets in the way of meeting your fitness goals? Think of how to get around those obstacles. Ask family and friends for suggestions. Then list obstacles and potential solutions.
Obstacles: Solutions: And In This Corner...Supportive relationships are important in every stage of the behavior change process. Seek someone to be in your corner — a nonjudgmental, positive-minded believer in you. Someone working toward similar goals can provide great support, too. Once you've identified friends or family members to support you, list 2 or more things they can do to help.
SMART Goals to Stay on CourseA map of where you want to go is the only way to ensure you'll get there. Well written goals are your map to success for personal objectives like continuing to stay fit. But a goal is just a wish if it isn't SMART:
- Specific. Be precise. Write down exactly what you expect to achieve.
- Measurable. Include amounts, times, days, and other milestones for gauging success.
- Achievable. Set your sights on an attainable goal, yet one that causes you to stretch, to go beyond what you're doing today.
- Relevant. Although it's nice for your spouse, kids, boss, parents, and friends to want you to be successful, your goal should matter to you, first and foremost.
- Trackable. Successful behavior change doesn't happen in a fell swoop — it takes time. Record your progress over days or weeks to see how much you've achieved.
Some examples of SMART goals:
"I will walk at 6:00 a.m. on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for 2 weeks starting today."
"This week I will bike with my spouse 3 evenings after dinner."
Take a moment now to write 2-3 SMART goals — your map of success for the next week. Then keep doing this exercise until the activities become a habit.
Just Rewards
Each day focus on how good you feel about yourself and the steps you're taking for fitness. Remember progress can be measured in many ways — mood, sleep, self-esteem, weight loss, or energy. Concentrate on the immediate satisfaction you get from exercise. Remember some health benefits take longer to experience. For example, it takes 8-12 weeks to raise high density lipoprotein (HDL) "good cholesterol" levels and 10 weeks or more to lose 10 pounds. Act purposefully and connect something pleasurable to exercising. Reward yourself with something personal, specific, and immediate. Consider these ideas:
- Hand weights
- Pulse rate monitor
- New piece of sports equipment
- Exercise outfit
- Sports sunglasses.
Take a moment to list 2-3 rewards for your successful efforts.
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